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Feb 7, 20232 min read
Boundary Setting is the Foundation of Civilization and Individual Success – Erik Kondo
Boundary Setting is fundamental for human success both on an individual and societal level. Societies that effectively use Boundary...


Feb 7, 20231 min read
Everyday Boundary Setting: A Parking Dispute - Erik Kondo
Let’s look at the situation from the viewpoint of the overlapping Wheelchair User’s and Society’s Boundary Setting Paradigm. They overlap...


Feb 7, 20234 min read
Boundary Setting: Emotion Based vs. Strategic Based - Erik Kondo
Boundary setting is a fundamental part of human life. Boundaries keep us protected from both physical and emotional intrusion from...


Feb 7, 20233 min read
Part III: So... What Happened to You?– Erik Kondo
This is Part III of my series on boundary setting for people with disabilities. It is a relatively common occurrence. You are enjoying...


Feb 7, 20232 min read
Part II: Boundary Setting for People Who Are New to Disability – Erik Kondo
People with a new visible physical disability such as an amputation or spinal cord injury are particularly vulnerable to having their...


Feb 6, 20236 min read
The Progressive Fence – Erik Kondo
The Progressive Fence is a model for understanding how to communicate and enforce limits on unwanted behavior during interpersonal...


Feb 6, 20232 min read
Seven Things Effective People Know About Boundary Setting – Erik Kondo
Most people think that Boundary Setting only has something to do with a “personal bubble” and “personal space”. Effective people know...


Feb 6, 20233 min read
Ladies, Assertiveness is Not Bitchiness. – Erik Kondo
I hear it all the time. I see it all the time. In general, many women seem to think that if they use assertiveness for boundary setting...


Feb 6, 20235 min read
Part I: Boundary Setting for People with Disabilities – Erik Kondo
Boundary setting is a problem solving strategy that enables people to deal with and differentiate between awkward, rude, and dangerous...

Feb 6, 20233 min read
Conflicting Boundary Setting Paradigms – Erik Kondo
“When I was very young, I remember my grandparents had an older gentleman friend come by the camp one afternoon. Maybe it was me, but I...
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