BOUNDARY SETTING

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Boundary Setting is the Foundation of Civilization and Individual Success – Erik Kondo

Boundary Setting is fundamental for human success both on an individual and societal level. Societies that effectively use Boundary...

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Everyday Boundary Setting: A Parking Dispute - Erik Kondo

Let’s look at the situation from the viewpoint of the overlapping Wheelchair User’s and Society’s Boundary Setting Paradigm. They overlap...

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Boundary Setting: Emotion Based vs. Strategic Based - Erik Kondo

Boundary setting is a fundamental part of human life. Boundaries keep us protected from both physical and emotional intrusion from...

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Part III: So... What Happened to You?– Erik Kondo

This is Part III of my series on boundary setting for people with disabilities. It is a relatively common occurrence. You are enjoying...

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Part II: Boundary Setting for People Who Are New to Disability – Erik Kondo

People with a new visible physical disability such as an amputation or spinal cord injury are particularly vulnerable to having their...

Feb 6, 20236 min read

The Progressive Fence – Erik Kondo

The Progressive Fence is a model for understanding how to communicate and enforce limits on unwanted behavior during interpersonal...

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Seven Things Effective People Know About Boundary Setting – Erik Kondo

Most people think that Boundary Setting only has something to do with a “personal bubble” and “personal space”. Effective people know...

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Ladies, Assertiveness is Not Bitchiness. – Erik Kondo

I hear it all the time. I see it all the time. In general, many women seem to think that if they use assertiveness for boundary setting...

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Part I: Boundary Setting for People with Disabilities – Erik Kondo

Boundary setting is a problem solving strategy that enables people to deal with and differentiate between awkward, rude, and dangerous...

Feb 6, 20233 min read

Conflicting Boundary Setting Paradigms – Erik Kondo

“When I was very young, I remember my grandparents had an older gentleman friend come by the camp one afternoon. Maybe it was me, but I...